Resources and FAQs for parents & professionals
If your child or patient/client has just been diagnosed with a medical condition, illness or disability, please start here. This is a collection of resources and guidelines collated over my years of supporting families of medically complex children. Note that research is currently extremely limited in relation to breastfeeding medically complex infants and children at this time. As more information is available, including my recent systematic review, and future research study, it will be added. If you are aware of a useful resource please contact Lyndsey Hookway.
I am happy to deliver training on this topic to any organisation or hospital, as well as breastfeeding groups, either in person or virtually. I currently have 3 training offerings on breastfeeding medically complex children, and one specifically on breastfeeding children with cancer.
The Breastfeeding the Brave Facebook group is here.
Beads of courage – charity acknowledging the bravery of children in adversity
This website can try to link families facing the same condition up for peer support
Short article I wrote summarising the evidence we have
Short article about breastfeeding babies admitted to hospital
The Breastfeeding the Brave video.
Guidelines and general information
The UNICEF UK Baby Friendly Initiative.
World Breastfeeding Trends Initiative. World Breastfeeding Trends Initiative (2020). State of Maternity Protection in 97 Countries: An analysis of WBTi country reports.
The WHO code of marketing of breastmilk substitutes. World Health Organisation (1981).
A Guide to Supporting Breastfeeding for the Medical Professional – book edited by Amy Brown and Wendy Jones
When Your Child is Sick – by Joanna Breyer
Your Child in the Hospital – Nancy Keene
Being the parent of a sick or medically complex child can be challenging. Please make sure you take care of yourself. Here are some resources to help:
‘For me as a parent’ self-care activities (many of these can take place in hospital) and more here and here. Headspace and Calm are good apps as well. The Mindful breastfeeding book by Anna Le Grange is a good practical resource.
Formula and bottle feeding
Financial and practical support
If you have life insurance with critical illness cover, it is well worth checking to see if you can make a claim on your insurance. This often applies even though your child is not named on your policy, and will have no effect on your own cover.
Please also check with your social worker, or medical team.
Money advice service – providing resources about benefits and how to make a claim
UK based support regarding government aided support
Also check with your hospital – they may have funds and grants to assist with parking, accommodation, and some charities provide a one-off grant.
Accommodation may be provided by your hospital, or there may be a home from home organisation near the hospital, if your child is cared for far from your home. Try Ronald McDonald house
If friends ask what they can do to help, a mealtrain can take the hassle out of coordinating meals. Have a friend set this up and arrange the details for you
Pregnancy and birth
If you are pregnant, and want to find out more about your options in labour and birth, in the first case, ask your midwife or obstetrician. If your child is diagnosed with a condition antenatally, you will probably be offered the opportunity to look around the neonatal unit. If not – please ask.
Here is some information from Bliss about how to prepare before birth
Birthrights website, about human rights in childbirth
WRISK – understanding and communicating risk to parents in pregnancy
Infant Risk website
Antenatal colostrum harvesting / antenatal hand expression information from La Leche League here
Expressing milk, and tube feeding
If your baby is born unwell, or becomes unwell, you will need to protect your milk supply by hand expressing, and using a pump. Here are some resources to help
This is a video from Maya Bolman IBCLC about hand expressing and breast massage
You may be using a breastpump on loan from hospital. If you need to source a breast pump, here are some code-compliant ones:
Some information and support here about exclusive pumping from Kellymom
Some information here about using a nasogastric (NG) tube
Donor milk, milk banking and drugs in breastmilk
If your baby needs to be supplemented, check whether using donor human milk is an option. There are milk sharing organisations as well as national milk banking organisations.
The UK Association of Milk Banking provides resources and information about the national milk banks in the UK
Hearts Milk Bank researches breast milk and provides screened donor milk to babies in need
Eats on feets is an organisation providing resources about informed milk sharing between parents
Condition-specific support and information
Lyndsey Hookway is a paediatric nurse, health visitor, IBCLC, birth trauma recovery practitioner and holistic sleep and behaviour coach. She works privately at www.feedsleepbond.com. Lyndsey is a respected International speaker and the Co-founder and Clinical Director of the Holistic Sleep Coaching Program. Her first book – Holistic Sleep Coaching – is out now on Amazon and direct from the publisher. Her second book is due out later this year. Her area of research is supporting breastfeeding in medically complex children. Book Lyndsey to speak at your event by visiting her professional website, where you can also sign up for her free monthly newsletter.